I know I've been posting a lot of questions lately, but it seems like wedding drama has been ratcheting up lately.
FS and I had lunch with one of the bridesmaids yesterday. Let's call her FancyFoofyPants (FFP). FFP is a wonderful, supportive, loyal friend whose brain-mouth filter is highly porous. As in, she has no tact.
FS and I are on a tight budget because we're paying for it ourselves, we're saving for a home, and we want to start a family ASAP. FFP comes from a very well-off family, and when it's her turn I'm sure Daddy will pick up the check.
Any time we discuss wedding stuff with FFP, she goes on about how we should want a "nicer" wedding, and keeps suggesting expensive stuff like a pro florist, DJ, etc. I've told the budget doesn't accommodate that, but since she's never had to worry about money, it just doesn't register. But I wind up feeling like a tacky cheapskate.
I'm debating dropping her as a bridesmaid. But I know she'll be really upset. What to do?
