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Devoted September 2014

is anyone else attending their own cocktail hour...?

Private User, on July 24, 2014 at 3:45 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 44

So! We have almost an hour during the cocktail hour that we'll be doing nothing essentially...and it seems as if we have a lot of down time already throughout the day! Should we go & mingle with guests during the cocktail hour?

& If we do that, would it be weird when we get formally introduced into the reception?

Let me know your thoughts!!

44 Comments

Latest activity by BunnyLove, on July 25, 2014 at 10:26 PM
  • LG
    Master October 2014
    LG ·
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    Usually thats when you get your pictures done.

    If you are all taking your photos before hand, then I dont think it would be weird to be present in your cocktail hour!

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  • P
    Devoted September 2014
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    We have a lot of pictures scheduled beforehand, so we're doing family pictures during the cocktail hour and even with that we'll still have an hour left! It's kinda crazy!

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  • kristenann
    Master October 2014
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    We're going to our cocktail hour since we're doing our pictures before hand. (or at least we're planning on going) It'll give us time to mingle with our guests and to thank them for coming, so we won't have to do it during dinner.

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  • SandM
    VIP August 2014
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    We are going down to the wine cellar of the restaurant and then coming back up and joining our cocktail hour. I don't want to miss out on the food! I say join if you want to.

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  • Ashley P.
    Super October 2014
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    We're getting most photos done before the wedding, though some after because of the sunset. I expect us to be able to come in with around 15 minutes left in cocktail hour. I'm looking forward to it!

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  • Kasheena
    Super October 2014
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    I hope we get to attend some of it.

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  • Megan
    Devoted May 2015
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    You bet we are! we are going to be doing photos during a chunk of cocktail hour but we are working it so that we can still attend for 20 and mingle with guests and get some quick snacks

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  • G
    Expert July 2014
    Gettin'Hitched ·
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    I'm hoping we get to go to ours for at least a bit...we have acoustic music playing during it and I didn't get to have a band for the whole reception, so I'd love to hear a little live music. I love live music...

    And of course to mingle! My venue brings us snacks and drinks while we do pics, but I want as much time as possible with guests!

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  • P
    Devoted September 2014
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    I'm glad to hear everyone's wanting to or definitely going to their cocktail hour! We're definitely doing it now Smiley smile Awesome, thanks for your input guys!

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  • Milwaukee_Bride
    VIP August 2014
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    We're doing most of our pictures beforehand - taking any that we might not have had time for during cocktail hour. But our plan is to attend. Our apps are delicious and I'm going to want to eat them Smiley smile Once everyone moves into the reception for dinner we'll do our grand entrance. I don't think it'll be weird.

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  • KristenMeowza
    Master October 2014
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    Our cocktail hour is on the lawn of our venue, so I'm hoping to pop in and play a hand at horseshoes or kanjam if I can. Smiley smile

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  • Karen
    Super October 2014
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    Were going to try to get there by 6:30 our cocktail hour is from 6-7. Mainly because I'm paying for those apps, I want to eat some!

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  • Lisa
    VIP September 2014
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    Yes ma'm! We are doing a first look and pictures beforehand and then just a handful of pictures after the ceremony (like 20 minutes maybe) because I want to be present at my own party!

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  • MelissaC
    Master January 2015
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    We won't be Smiley sad. We have way too big families so that will take a while, plus I'm going to have to run back to the changing room to change back into my American dress from my Thai dress for the pictures. We're going to try to get all the wedding party pictures before the ceremony so maybe we will end up having a tiny bit of time.

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  • A&G
    Master August 2014
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    We will be! We plan to get all our photos done before the ceremony starts so during the cocktail hour we will be spending time with our guests and getting other family photos done, as well as any extras.

    We are skipping the part about being introduced at the reception. No point in that if we are already there. I always thought that was silly anyways.

    I think our guests will really enjoy having more time to talk to us since many of our family members we haven't talked to in a while.

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  • cupcake_bride
    Expert November 2014
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    Yes! we're paying for the food and want to eat it!! (and drink a little, thank everyone, , hear the music we are so carefully selecting). pics are before. I HATE missing cocktail hours esp. when you're a bridesmaid. It's such a long day and I love cocktail hour food! usually more than the dinner meal... yum.

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  • Northern MN
    Master November 2014
    Northern MN ·
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    I hope to make some of it. We had planned on doing family photos ahead of time but the more I worked on doing it I wasn't sure we could get everyone together before the wedding (in a smooth way that wouldn't be stress filled) so we are doing family photos after the receiving line...if their is time I plan to join in the cocktail hour.

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  • *
    Master September 2014
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    If we get our pics done by then, we will go and join the party Smiley smile

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  • M
    Super September 2014
    Miimii ·
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    We're doing a first look and all the formal photos before the ceremony so we will def be attending our cocktail hour. I'm excited bc all the food for it is delicious!! And I'm excited to get to spend more time w guests !

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  • The New Mrs. Pool
    Devoted August 2014
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    Nope, we'll be taking pictures during our cocktail hour.

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