Is anyone else inviting people that you KNOW won't come, or that you hope won't come, or both? Example: distant out of town relatives you never see, friends of your or FS's parents that you've never met, coworkers who you don't particularly even like but couldn't figure out a way to not invite?
We mailed out our invitation yesterday and it just struck me how many people I said "oh, they won't come" about....why do we feel we HAVE to invite all these people?
Short answer is we don't have to, I know, but I feel many of us do anyways.