We are paying for our own wedding. Originally wanted to stay around 5K for a budget with 100 guests. Everything is planned now, and we are way over at 10K.
I've only worked at my job for 1 year part time. I have about 15 coworkers. They all know I am getting married, and some have repeatedly said that they better be invited.
Ive only actually hung out with 1 coworker outside of work. Anyway... i decided that I would invite them to the reception. So no ceremony or dinner, just drinks and party. Only now some are asking about bringing dates. Is it awful if I say that I will pay for their open bar, but if they bring a date they need to pay for their own drinks? It feels tacky. But I dont even know their dates. Or should I just say no dates? Some are married. Feels weird saying you cant bring your husband. If I let everyone come and bring a date, it's an extra $500 or more. Just seems like more than I want to spend on coworkers, some i like more than others.
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