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Sarah
Super August 2013

Inviting close friend's parents?

Sarah, on March 11, 2013 at 1:50 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 1 12

Is it normal to invite close friend's parents to your wedding? I am not really close to the parents, but we all grew up together. I had never heard of this until my mom said something. She was surprised I wasn't planning on inviting them. Is this a normal occurance?

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Latest activity by sarah r, on March 12, 2013 at 8:39 AM
  • Lizz M.
    Master March 2013
    Lizz M. ·
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    It depends if you can add them your list or not. My best friend got married 2 years ago, but her family and her H's family were so large, they had to cut the guest list somewhere. So, my Mom and our other friends parents weren't invited. To our wedding, they were because we could afford to have them come. It just depends on your situation.

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  • Micachoo
    Super May 2013
    Micachoo ·
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    I think it depends on your relationship. I'm inviting my MOH's mom.

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  • MrsO
    Master May 2012
    MrsO ·
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    I only invited one set of friend's parents. However I was extremely close to them when I was in high school and they were practically my 2nd parents. I had a key to their house, and probably spent as much time at their house as I did my own.

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  • Karen
    Super May 2013
    Karen ·
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    I'm inviting two sets of friends' parents, but I've spent lots of time with all of them. There are other friends' parents who I know, but I'm not inviting because I'm not close to them.

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  • We'llAlwaysHaveParis
    Master November 2013
    We'llAlwaysHaveParis ·
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    I invited the parents of my wedding party (at my first wedding).

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  • Juliette S
    Master February 2012
    Juliette S ·
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    I invited my 3 BM's parents, although only one by official invite, but the other 2 were single girls and so I was like if you want to bring them instead of a date that's good with me (I know them all pretty well). Only one set actually came. Another friend's mom (who I've known for 20 years) wanted to come and so I invited her too and she came and had SO much fun with my BM's parents lol -- funny how that works out! If you have the room it's a nice gesture, but if not....

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  • Erin
    VIP September 2013
    Erin ·
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    I will be inviting the parents of my MOH. Only becasue I spent almost as much time at her house as mine as a kid.

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  • Tiffany M. ( Tiffany P.)
    Master August 2012
    Tiffany M. ( Tiffany P.) ·
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    We invited the parents of 2 of our bridal party (my MOH and one of DH's GM) and also a few other parents of good friends of mine. But this is because I spent a lot of time at their homes during high school and university.

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  • Married2013
    Master September 2013
    Married2013 ·
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    I’m only inviting the parents of my friends that I’m actually close to. I’m inviting a couple of my BM’s parents and the groomsman’s parents because my parents and FH parents are friends with them, and we feel close to them as well. A couple of my BM’s and the groomsman’s parents I’ve never met or only met a couple of times so we aren’t inviting them.

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  • WasSoon2BMrsSmith
    Master September 2010
    WasSoon2BMrsSmith ·
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    I didn't invite my best friends parents and she didn't invite mine, though if I had a big wedding I would have cause they were like my second parents growing up.

    However my best guy friend invited my ex (who he'd been friends with since kindergarden) and his whole family sis & sis gf, bro and bro's gf as well as my ex's parents.

    I was quite worried about this as I dumped ex for DH but his whole family was and are the sweetest people and accepted my DH as just another of my friends and treated me like they hadn't seen me since last weekend instead of 3 yrs before.

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  • sarah r
    Super June 2013
    sarah r ·
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    I invited almost all the parents of people in our wedding party. We know most of them well and have spent lots of time with them growing up. I think it really depends how well you know the parents.

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