Invitation wording

I have NEVER seen anything about gifts at all on an actual wedding invitation.. typically registry information or gift requests are on shower invitations.. if people realize that you aren't registered anywhere then they should assume to give you some sort of money, but I personally don't really think it's appropriate to ask for "paper gifts" on an invitation..

I would just not say anything about gifts.. if you have a website, you could put your website information on the invitation and maybe put something similar to what you have above on your website?!

Good luck!

Invitations should never include information about gifts. Put it on your wedding website and ask family and friends to spread the word.

No no no no no.

As the previous ladies said, nothing about gifts should be on the invitations. If you are not registered anywhere, most people should get the hint. If anyone asks, just say "We are not registered anywhere. We are just currently saving for a house (or whatever)." Have family share your wishes with people who ask. Some people are traditional with their gift giving and will want to give a physical gift. Don't be surprised if you get a random gift despite not being registered anywhere.

Honestly, if I received an invite to the wedding which requested only paper gifts, I would be turned off (and this is coming from someone whose go to wedding gift is already cash). I would even be tempted to give a "paper" gift that wasn't money lol

I agree with the other ladies. I would leave it off the invitations and ask your family & bp to spread the word.

Do not put anything about gifts or money on the invitation. That is reserved for your shower and if people ask, you can tell them what you want/need.

"Paper gifts"? Sooo rude!! Don't register, and people will get the message. You run the risk of having people get you gifts anyway, even if you don't register, but at least you're not being bold-faced RUDE about it. If you're smart, you'll have a small registry and only mention by word of mouth to your bridal party and close family that you'd prefer money. Can you use nicer sheets? Better quality pots?

I usually give money, but if I saw a reference to "paper gifts", I'd think you were being smart-mouths and remove my cash or check from your card.

You most certainly wouldn't put it ON your invitation. However, since some circles include registry information in the invites (TACKY RUDE WHATEVER IT'S the WAY of the WORLD in some areas ladies, get over you MAY be able to put it on an insert, HOWEVER, it is worded kinda funny, and I'd take it as paper paper, and you never want to ask for money. I think that's rude. I honestly would just skip it all together.