So a little backstory...I live with my fiancee and his parents while we save money for a house (hopefully not much longer) and his parents gave us some money since we are paying for the wedding ourselves. They are also attempting to make some decisions about things like the food, favors, and insisted on paying for an open bar when we weren't really sure we wanted one. I feel like we have to listen to them and do what they want because I really do appreciate the money and a place to live with my fiancee, but I also really just want to plan my own wedding and do things my way without their brutally honest and (sometimes) hurtful opinions. My fiancee's sister is also my best friend and MoH so I feel like I can't even vent to her because I don't want her to think I have a problem with her parents (which I totally DO NOT, I just want to plan my wedding the way I want) What do I do at this point??