Im so sick of this pre wedding stuff im just ready to be married

Hey you guys this is more of a vent post this wedding process has been a roller coaster with no breaks ,I TRUELY believe that when ppl say weddings make ppl act crazy when its not even about them . MY first trial was with my divorce parents and step parents regarding who will walk me down the aisle and then who's name was going to be on the programs for brides parents ,FH parents are still married and My next trial was my brides maid and MOH omg I had a brides maid brunch in march so every one can meet and get to know each other it went well but they didn't click like glue ! I've have ppl in my party who still didn't get they shoes and are struggling with money but taking trips and doing what they want and not making it a priority I wish I knew what the future held before I picked my brides maid because I would probably have none or just 2 or 3. I cant wait until my wedding day is here and this finally be over