Im so sick of this pre wedding stuff im just ready to be married

I feel you completely!!

You're almost there!!!! The marathon is almost over. Don't sweat the small stuff! Shoes are shoes and ultimately they won't break the day. Don't forget all the other great pieces you've planned that will be amazing regardless of BMs. It's going to be an amazing day regardless of what else happens.

I totally get how you feel! Honestly, don't try too hard. Just let things flow and only intervene when needed. You'll feel so much more relaxed!

@kate im not asking for specific shoes first off ask questions before you start getting smart!!Im not worrying about ppls money and how they spend it im just saying if I have told you about cost in advance and you don't have your shoes and complaining about other cost but you are taking trips and etc . then your priorities are not together period and they don't have to be friends they just need to communicate nobody said they have to be holding hands walking into the sun

Oh how dare someone take a nice trip for themselves when they could spend that money on YOUR special day.

FFS. it's absolutely none of your business what your friends choose to spend their money on. Also, bridesmaid brunches are extremely unnecessary. No one needs to be friends.

Sorry. It'll be over soon. Also you shouldn't really expect your wedding to be their priority. if they can't afford shoes maybe you should suggest some cheap ones or offer to help with the cost. I don't really expect my girls to be friends or communicate with each other. Just with me.

@laura, I think @Kate was just trying to help not get smart. We are in the home stretch right there with you and feeling the pressure. I too am ready for all of the planning to be over and just marry my best friend. Maybe you can take a day or two off from planning and pamper yourself with a massage or mani/pedi? It is incredibly stressful but know that at the end of the day you get to spend forever with your sweetheart.

Thanks every one else for your feed back because if I could elope I would be gone to the court house and didn't have to think twice if I knew what I knew now smh

@FUTUREMRSBURROUGHS thank you that sounds great and yea its just intense right now since we are so close to date and I might just take a couple of days off until my bridal shower is on Saturday

@Brianna Thank you because I don't think I could go threw wedding planning again lord lol

I agree with 100%. I wish we would of just eloped and come back and told everyone guess what we're married.

I am right there with you. This last month is so incredibly stressful to me and I don't even know why. Pretty much everything is done, I have a few little things here and there to do but otherwise I'm just hurrying up and waiting for the day to get here. I am just ready for it all to be over so I can be married to my best friend and enjoy a couple of days out of town together as a married couple!

I agree with your title even if I don't have any specific issues to speak of. I am not a natural hostess and hate being the center of attention so this whole wedding thing is stressful. I have to keep telling myself that the reception is for the guests not for me.

Both my FH and I agree that we are looking forward to the marriage much more than the wedding.

OMG!!! I thought I was the only one going through this. If I only knew now, what I didn't before asking them to be apart of the wedding, I would have just kept it simple. Also, my mom wanted to invite everyone she wanted at the wedding and felt bad when I said I invite who I want to the wedding and those people are the ones that have been around me often and have been an impact on mine and my fiance's life. When did the weddings start becoming anything other than the bride/groom choice who to invite to the wedding? I definitely can not wait until my wedding is over....

I just sent this to my fiance. "I am loving planning, but I can't wait until it doesn't consume every waking thought."

@mrsMrsVoegs17 we are going to make it threw geesh when I wrote this post I felt so much better and took a walk outside on my break to get my self together that's positive thinking in a couple more days I will be married and very happy

@Kristin yes me either I going to have to take a couple of sips of my wine before we get started the day of just think it will be all eyes on me and my fiancé I dread lol and my fiancé feels the same to we are ready to be married

I was feeling like this last week. ... this week I feel better. I feel your pain though. Hang in there date twin, we will make it.

@Danielle IKR especially the parents trying to have some say so on the guest list it gets over whelming and some ppl who my mom wanted I turned down a lot and some family I forgot about so it was hit and miss but on the bright side your wedding date is closer than mine

@Jennifer I use to love it in the beginning but then we started to get n the middle of the process and all most at the end it got lol but I've even sheded a tear its a lot it takes over your life because you want everything the way you want a lot of details but when its done I want miss it all

@Bunnycita TWIN !! thanks for the encouragement , I guess this what it feels like to be almost at the end goodness I feel like I can write a survival guide for pre planning process but when its done I want miss it lol