Im so sick of this pre wedding stuff im just ready to be married

LMAO, (my apologies) I am soooo sure that you are not the only Bride to be that has felt this way, I know this from personal experience, with my upcoming wedding, so I'm going to say give it a rest do something non wedding related or get a massage or a pedicure everything will work out just reset your brain, and try again when you are not so anxious.

I share your woes sister.

Yeah! I am now waiting for all of my rsvps to start working on place cards, my FH said to stop spending money.. that's going to the garbage. I almost flipped. Im here trying to make everything so pretty. How can he be so laid back lol. He obviously is not feeling the same haha. He said all i need to care about is the booze and food. Haha. Man.

@MikaT I agree and a massage sounds wonderful

@OctobersVeryOwn lol dang you must be tired of it seriously but my effort towards the wedding now is way different of how I felt when I first started

@Kelly amen sister

@Bunnycita im going to work on putting my wedding invites together tonight and will send them out tomorrow I was waiting for my labels to arrive lol guys don't get it but my fiancé has his grooms zilla moments here and there and the food and alcohol is the last thought on my list to be concerned mine is the details and decorations has to be right

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Are your parents paying for some of the wedding? If they are, then yes they have a say.

As for the programs.. it's not that hard, listen your parents, and if you're close to step parents, list them.

As for your BM what they spend their money on is none of your business.

Currently fighting with my mom via text about the stupid fucking shower I wish she never threw (because she's a controlling bitch, said horrible mean shit to all of them, and now all of FH's family and my bridesmaids hate her but she thinks it's all my FH and his family's fault somehow???) and feel the exact same way, girl.

I love wedding planning, but the merging of families and my mom being extremely involved (which was a mistake) is stressing me out big time.

@FB99 sorry lol and they all decided that they are going to throw me a bridal shower then my moh came up with a balance that she felt was good for every one and nobody said anything if it was a problem or anything I have 6 brides maids all of them paid except one and they feel its not fair for that one brides maid not to pay when its a group effort and they have known in advance about and yes I had a brunch in march 2017 to go over budget and details

@OctobersVeryOwn Girl right especially flowers that was the hardest vendor to land since they are so expensive and want last but this to shall past

If they can't afford it, then she shouldn't feel obligated or shamed into doing it...MOH should have talked to all, not just assume.

@Kelsey oh no keep calm lol just get threw the shower im sure its coming up maybe your mom is in her feelings of some sort me and my mom argued one time this wedding process it was a big blow up smh and you don't have long until its over

Sorry you are struggling. For the invites I would have just put everyone's names. Makes it easy and doesn't hurt feelings. Don't worry about shoes. They aren't going to show up barefoot. Try not to sweat things that are not in your control. I know it's hard but it's the only way. Good luck!

Don't let it get to you. I honestly don't even care about things like that anymore. I just had a bridesmaid dip out of my bachelorette party on Saturday so she could study for a test. Crap happens!

I hear ya, but at this point I have to throw my hands up and let it go. I have been stalking weather patterns and basically anything to make me more internalized crazy. On the outside I am cool as a cucumber but the internal screams are real!

I think everyone has a picture in their head of their bm getting along and having fun together but in reality they don't have to ..they are there for you not each other. It would make it so much more fun if they did have fun together though -I understand. YESSS Weddings are stressful. I understand your frustration about the shoes too-give them a deadline. Everything will be ok--sends air hug-- it'll be all over soon

Hey date twin @OctobersOwn! Yay!

I'm still loving it because I'm not worried about any of this. All of these things are minor in the long run. We'll get there in time, we have to find ways to enjoy the process in the meantime!

Best of luck everyone!

Ugh I hear you!! I'm almost weeks away from my wedding and I can't wait!! I just started my seating chart last night because my fmil has yet to call 6 people ( her family) to see if there coming to the wedding. I need final head count by Sunday too. Also just closed on our house and just got promoted at work!! Stressed is a understatement!! Hang in there!! It's almost here!!

I feel you !!! You're almost there tho !!!

Omg!!! I feel your pain on these bridesmaids my wedding is around the corner and I can't wait. I'm ready to strangle some people and bridezilla has emerged.

I agree. My mother in law has progressively been worse the closer the wedding gets. I'm going to enjoy every moment though: )

I'm 9 months away and can't wait for the wedding to be done. I love FH and all but I'm tired of planning. 28 month engagement is kiiiiiiilling me