The bride is my coworker and I work directly with her every day. The shower is being hosted by an outside party [groom's family] and there are several employees that have received invitations to the wedding--even though I am the only one who works with her directly. I feel slighted...I cannot attend the bridal shower because of a previous engagement, but I want to be a bigger person and buy her a gift off the registry still. I was actually planning on spending quite a bit of money to purchase something special; however, I feel that I was only invited to receive a gift and now I'm not sure what to do. What do you think?
By the way, I will still invite her to my shower/wedding when I send out invitations in a few months!