My wedding is in two weeks and I have one maid of honor and one bridesmaid (my sister and my future sister in law).
they bought they're dresses in February and maybe because we posted them on insta, my future husband's cousin saw them and went and bough a very similar dress in a similar color... for another wedding...
Now she tells me she is wearing that dress to our wedding... my bridesmaid helped me and told her please do not wear that dress because its similar to ours and in the pictures/people are gonna think you are the maid of honor or part of the party because the dress is so similar!!
we offered to give her a gift card to buy a new dress , or to buy in amazon which she still has time and return... or we could give her another dress from us...She said she is not buying a new dress... and she will just not show up in family pictures... (acting really mature) And I just think its rude to tell this to the bride/bridal party... like why not cooperate? aren't people supposed to make the bride happy? anyway... even my fiancé is ashamed of this situation... my mom just says ignore her but how can I? it hurts me that I have done so much for her and she is disrespecting me like this.. any advice... out there?