Alright
So... here's my wedding dress:
http://www.davidsbridal.com/Product_Off-the-shoulder-A-Line-with-Side-draped-bodice-9T9861_Bridal-Gowns-Shop-By-Size-Plus-Sizes
Here's something very similar to what my bolero will look like (my mom's making it and it's not done yet), just please imagine the sleeves down the the elbows and lace detailing... http://www.tulipbridal.com/Off-White-short-sleeve-wedding-satin-bolero-jacket_p_442.html
We're having an evening wedding, and I HATE my arms.
Given my dress and your imagination when it comes to my bolero, what kind of hair do would look best? I'm a plus size (size 22) who's really busty, so I think if my long hair is down, it would really make me look top heavy and take away from the detailing that the bolero will have. I think an updo would look best with the bolero's neckline, but I have a double chin and a neck like a turtle that I'm self-conscious of when my hair's up! Agh!