I hate my wedding dress. *UPDATED IN POST*

SASHA! Yes. That is exactly what I will do. Don't know about the pearls too much... looks like I might strangle myself by the end of my first dance lol.

I'm sorry that you hate your dress. I really hope that everything works out for you. Congrats on the weight loss though

I agree, can you get it made strapless? I think you can work with it, I really do!

All of the chest support is created with the sleeves pulling it tightly.. and I've got some big Gazoombas right now and they need support. I decided I'm going to try and bribe the lady at the boutique I bought it from... I'll say, "This dress was $250 and if I find something I like that is cheaper, you can still keep all the money I spent originally. And if I find one more expensive, I'll pay the difference. " Either way, she'll make more money off of me. Think she'd go for it?

I am going trhough the i hate my dress thing too! *even more now that girl on WW got the dress my mind keeps saying i should have got cause it more morden then my dress*

can you Alter it? what about a 99 DB dress? not anything fancy

O dear i feel your pain. im feelin the same pain, but im praying my dad will come through in 20 days so i can get another dress. i also brought mine at a boutique but they do consignment so thats my plan, to put the dress i have on consignment and at least get half of my money back. but not until i get a new dress.

seriously dear if you could fit mine you could have it if you like. im very serious

Shannon - I really don't like David's Bridal cause I'm so short and to get it altered so quick would probably cost a fortune

Casandra b. - You are a sweety. I WISH I was as small as you and could fit in your dress.

I hope everything works out for us ladies. We should all love our dress on our wedding days <3

Do you know a steamstress? because if you get a simple dress a hem is easy. you can't sell if back to lady you bought it from?

I realize I keep settling so everyone else around me will be happy with my choices. Its been one thing after another - Don't like your bouquets, I like THIS dress, don't wear a veil, you'll look trashy if you wear purple heels under your dress, your bouquet will look better after I add some satin bows and tulle to it! (my bouquet is made of peacock feathers). I could literally smash my face into a wall. Everything that has to do with ME my mother wants to take control of. I'm the one who has to wear it, so she needs to stop because I am not happy with her suggestions. I hope everyone else finds a way to enjoy their dress.. I am certainly going to try.

I love the update! Do what will make you happy. It's just a dress, your mom can get over it.

So are you keeping your dress?

and good for you for standing up!

I am totally getting rid of it! If I can't exchange it, I'll buy a new one and cut my losses. I recently heard that you get all of your confidence from your wedding dress. If you love your wedding dress, you will feel beautiful and confident without ever having to try. And then I realized... I don't feel pretty at all in mine. So I'm going to fix it right away!

Yay im happy for you. we can help. do you have DB near you?

I do have a david's bridal, but I'm getting married so soon that they wouldn't be able to alter it in time. At least not without it costing a TON of money

@PeacockBride2B- call up some local seamstresses and look at reviews online on yelp.com, they will probably be much cheaper than DB an surely one of them could alter it for you in 2 months! Give it a shot, and then if you find the dress you looooovvveee, call around.