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Carlene
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I hate being the center of attention. Anyone else with me?!

Carlene, on April 11, 2014 at 12:39 PM

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I almost skipped the whole wedding because I cannot stand being the center of attention. Don't get me wrong- I am super happy that my FH and I will share this special day together and have all the memories that come with it, but I'm dreading having everyone stare at me all evening. Where is my...

I almost skipped the whole wedding because I cannot stand being the center of attention. Don't get me wrong- I am super happy that my FH and I will share this special day together and have all the memories that come with it, but I'm dreading having everyone stare at me all evening. Where is my Xanax?!

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    Dedicated April 2015
    Anonymous ·
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    I don't like it either at all! I'm shy and I don't like the attention. I would rather have a destination wedding and be done with it. FH keeps saying "but I want to see you walk down the aisle." :/ Yeah but I don't want everyone looking at me lol

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  • M&M
    VIP August 2015
    M&M ·
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    I agree, and not just on the wedding day, but in the whole wedding process. I am a shy person and usually pretty low key, sometimes going unnoticed lol! Its a big change all of a sudden when I got engaged when everyone starts talking to me and paying attention to me haha

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    Super August 2014
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    I am extremely shy in front of a crowd and feel very awkward. The pastor even joked about doing the quicky vows like you would at a vegas wedding for me and letting FH write his own. lol My bridesmaids suggested that I do a few shots before going down the aisle also. haha

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  • Alexis
    Super May 2014
    Alexis ·
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    Me! I'm super shy, idk how I'm going to get through the wedding day lol

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    Devoted September 2014
    thefuturemrspeterson ·
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    I really don't like being the center of attention either but FH seems to love it so I guess we balance each other out?

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  • Anisea
    Master July 2014
    Anisea ·
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    You know we only have a certain number of years on earth right? Theres no time to be shy. Take a public speaking class for your own sake

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