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Olivia
Savvy October 2020

i found my dress But....

Olivia, on March 9, 2020 at 1:57 PM

Posted in Wedding Attire 41

I’m so very NOT traditional. I’m in love with my dress and how I feel in it. And I had to come clean and mention something about it to my fiancé since I was nervous about it lol but is anyone like worried family members are going to be rude about their dresses???
I’m so very NOT traditional. I’m in love with my dress and how I feel in it. And I had to come clean and mention something about it to my fiancé since I was nervous about it lol but is anyone like worried family members are going to be rude about their dresses???

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  • Olivia
    Savvy October 2020
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    All of y’all are so helpful!!!!! 😭
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    This is stunning !! Honestly you’re gonna be so beautiful people won’t care aha.
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  • Margaret
    Master October 2020
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    Family members will never be rude to the Bride. They will be who who they are irregardless. But, it's YOUR day and who cares what anyone thinks. The only thing that matters is how you feel.

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  • Andrea
    Super May 2020
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    Wow I love it!!! If you love it and you think your fiancé will love it, than that’s all that matters. Even if you had the most classic traditional dress ever, there would still be someone that didn’t like it. 🤷🏼‍♀️
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  • Katie
    Expert January 2021
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    LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
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    First of all it’s YOUR day so your should have whatever you want. Secondly after scrolling down and seeing your dress.....it’s GORGEOUS!!!! I love it and I’m sure your FH will love it too.
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  • Michaela
    Super May 2020
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    OMG I can't even with how beautiful you are in that dress. Now to imagine the hair and makeup all done up!!!! You will literally blow everyone away so hard that they will forget it's black !

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  • Nothi
    Beginner March 2021
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    That is such a beautiful dress!!
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  • Jessica
    Expert February 2020
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    This is gorgeous!!!

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  • Kris
    Expert July 2021
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    That;s such a gorgeous dress!!! I love the flora elements of it.

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  • Jordan
    Expert March 2021
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    That dress is sooooo STUNNING!!!!

    I absolutely love it. Smiley smile


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    My dress is traditional BUT it now has much cleavage than when I purchased it (tbh that was always my hope/goal 😂) I really wanted a mix of "elegant" and "sexy." It's OUR day (FH & I) and we deserve to feel our best, whatever that means. You and your fiance, too! Plus it's your dress- who cares what they think, THEY don't have to wear it 😁


    However it has now crossed my mind that some of my family may be thinking rude things (they'd never say anything to my face but I could definitely see gossip happening.) So, yeah, it has crossed my mind 🤷‍♀️ but I know my FH will love the look, I'll love the look, and those who love me most won't mind or will love the look.
    Ultimately you have to decide, would you rather do/wear what you want (with possible consequences) or appease others (and miss out on what you really wanted)?
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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
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    Omg it’s GORGEOUS!! I wanted a black wedding dress, but couldn’t find one I liked after 9 mos of looking. If I’d seen this one, I would’ve gotten it, no question. It’s beautiful and still “bridal” in a no traditional way. It looks fantastic on you! Rock that dress at your wedding, girl!!
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  • Olivia
    Savvy October 2020
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    Thank you!!!!
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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
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    This dress is absolutely gorgeous, Olivia. It's your day and you can choose to wear what you want. If this is your dress, it's your dress. Be true to you and don't worry about pleasing others Smiley smile

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  • Jennifer
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    This is fabulous!!!!! I love the black over white Smiley heart

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  • S
    Expert October 2020
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    WOW! your dress is beautiful. I def understand your worry though. It is pretty new that black is a wedding dress color. I mean I am also not very traditional and went away from pure white. What are your colors or vision for your wedding?

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  • Courtney
    Expert July 2020
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    The dress is very different! It looks gorgeous on you ! My dress is gold and I was slightly worried about what people might think, but I love my dress so I'm no longer worried about it! I'm even getting a custom veil to match. Are you wearing a veil? i found my dress But.... 1



    i found my dress But.... 2


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  • M
    Master October 2021
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    That dress is stunning and makes such a statement!
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  • Olivia
    Savvy October 2020
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    Oh my gosh!!!! You look stunning! The dress is gorgeous!!!!!!!!! And no. I’ve tried so many but white doesn’t look right and black makes it tooooo dark. So I’m going to do a small tiara or something.
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