Why don’t you like him? Unless he’s said unforgivable things about you, deliberately tried to set your fiancé up with someone else, or committed assault or some other similar crime, then you’re out of line asking your fiance to pick someone else.
It’s bc of past history with him you mentioned a few things in your comment. And bc of it i don’t like him and my fiancé is aware of it. I know he will pick some one else but i don’t know if i should make him. I just feel like why should i have to look at him in my wedding when i know i don’t like him 🤷🏽♀️
I don't like my fh best man either and I know he isnt going to throw my fh a bachelor party either. But, I love my fh and hes happy with his choice. Do not make him pick someone else that is not okay. It is his day to and whether or not he acts like it it will hurt his feelings if you say no.
That’s tough. I understand not wanting any drama/bad vibes on your wedding day. I would say to talk to your FH about it, but approach it gently. I’m sure he’s aware of your feelings about his best man. Maybe just ask if he’s 100% certain this is the guy he wants, and if he says yes, then you might just have to leave it at that.
That is a tricky spot to be in. I recommend you not ask that if your fiancé. You may just have to grin it and bear, but have your ears alerted about his bachelor party. If he has tried to set him up with someone else, he may try again.
You are going be his wife but him and this grromsman might have a bond that you don't understand or know about it. He might have been there when you fh was at his worst point in life. So even if this groomsman have been dirt to you. He could have been that rock to your fh. It could have been a situation where this groomsman actually told your fh I might have not always done what was right by your fh wife. But I know that she is the right one for you. I say let it ride keep positive vibes. The friend/groomsmen will only have to stand by your fh for a few minutes but you will stand with him for the rest of your life.🖤💖
Have you never talked to him about this before? If he already knows and made this choice then you should try to respect it. If he doesn’t then you should be talking to him about his friendship outside the context of your wedding.