i can't postpone my wedding

I am still moving forward with my 50 person wedding in CA in September 2020.

I would make a realistic Plan B if you don’t want to postpone. Maybe cut your guest list down to immediate family and bridal party. Maybe have a private ceremony and reception next year. Not trying to be a downer, but realistically, the weddings that we think of with lots of guests and dancing will not be happening this year, and if for some way your venue allows it, you’ll be putting many lives at risk. I understand postponing is difficult (we postponed with only 3 weeks left in hopes that we could still have our wedding in July) and is not for everyone. I just urge you to think about the safety of your loved ones while you decide what’s best for you and your future spouse.