Hi all,
How is everyone doing? It's been such a hectic time for all of us.
Recently, my FH and I started talking about postponing our September 2020 wedding to May 2021. We are nervous this won't be over by September, and a majority of our guests are over 60 or are at high-risk of getting COVID-19. We may be overreacting, but we want to keep everyone healthy. We haven't fully decided yet. We want to wait a closer to time to see what it going on with the world.
With that being said, about 40 of my family members (all of one side of my family), recently started hating on my FH. FH and I have different political views than that side of the family. We don't talk about it with them for the sake of everything, but they try to talk about it with us. We always politely decline because they get way too angry when you don't agree with what they say. They recently started to call my FH names, telling him that he's annoying and whatnot. Keep in mind, that we have only seen this part of the family THREE times. And FH is ALWAYS quiet with them.. They also told my BIL that nobody likes him due to difference in political views, too. BIL has only seen them like twice also, and they were at their wedding last year!
Now, this may be mean, but I'm not spending money on food and alcohol for people that don't like my FH. Why should they be there to celebrate when I know they will just be rolling their eyes at us? I think they know they've already burned their bridges with us. We have always been nice to them, but they don't seem to do the same, so we are just over it.
How can I uninvite them? Can I even do that? Just curious how this could possibly work with us MAYBE changing dates. Can I just not send them an invitation with the new date? LOL
Thanks for reading my long rant, guys! I hope your planning is going well!