How to tactfully address bridesmaid hair clashing with wedding(all set thanks for the advice)

I'm guessing since she is one of your bridesmaids she is one of your nearest and dearest. No matter what hair color she has, she is your close person.

It's a silly thing to possibly end a relationship over.

I was only looking for opinions because the blue hair startled me. She has been the one making sure she picked a dress that didn't clash with her red hair. So I wanted some outside opinions on it. I'm not trying to be nasty or rude to her which is why instead of saying something I came here. I gotta a little worried when a few people I asked said oh my god she's gonna look like a unicorn. I feel better that you all think the blue won't stand out as much as I think it would

I have blue hair and I can still rock a pink dress soooooo I don't see what the problem is

Uhhh... not sure how you get unicorn from that. Like PP said, most photos will be of you and FH. Her hair is really inconsequential.

Not that it matters, but I think that hair with that dress would be rockin'.

The title of your thread tells us what you're worried about -- her hair clashing with your wedding. You want advice on how to tactfully address her. Here's the answer: you don't.

OP, you wrote, " I know it's her hair her choice, but I don't want her to feel out of place either. I don't want to be a bridezilla but I don't want my pictures to look ridiculous." The truth, which is obvious, would have been written like this: "I don't want to be a bridezilla, but I don't want my pictures to look ridiculous." The next sentence, "I don't want her to feel out of place...", isn't really your primary concern, is it?

She's an adult. She took everything into consideration and decided to dye her hair. She obviously isn't worried about feeling out of place, but you're obviously worried about your pictures looking "ridiculous" (your choice of wording).

You pick honor attendants because of their histories, hearts, and personalities -- not their coloring, elective or DNA based.

Funky colors are very in right now, and people are constantly switching them up. I think it's pretty, but I doubt it will still be blue. If i'm being honest, she is your friend and she probably thought you asked because you love her and accept her, she would probably be very hurt if you told her to change it. My sister's hair (MOH) is streaked purple right now, I think it would look really cool in an updo!

It's actually a gorgeous shade of blue and will look awesome with pink.

Unfortunately you don't have a leg to stand on with this. You can't ask her to change her hair color. Even tho you aren't a fan of it, it's still her hair and she has a right to do what she wants with it. You still have some time before your wedding, so maybe you'll get lucky and she'll decide to change it on her own to a more neutral color by then.

Unicorns are pretty cool.

You do not tell her what color her hair can be. You do not tell her what length it can be.

Honestly, I love that color on her.

Just when you think you have heard everything...

I was expecting something so bad, and then I saw the pic... What are you worried about? If her hair is blue and that's what she likes, leave it be! It would be extremely rude to ask her to change her hair color.

Her hair looks awesome. You clearly aren't concerned about her, but what your pics will look like. I cannot fathom why you would pick someone to be a BM and then be upset because that person is their true self on your wedding day. Our officiant, who is a friend of mine, dyed her hair blue a couple months before our wedding. She rocked it at our wedding. The pictures are beautiful.

I don't know what all of your colors are, but I actually think the blue hair, pulled back with some gold accessories or baby's breath, would look beautiful with that dress. I wouldn't be worried. Who knows? Colors like that tend to fade quickly and she may go red or brown or black or whatever between now and then. She knows what makes her comfortable, so that's all that matters.

How do you tactfully address it? By keeping it to yourself. There's no way to tactfully do that.

If that's your biggest concern, I'm jealous.

How would you feel if she asked you to change your hair?

People say it is rude but I understand, I saw wait and see

She doesn't have to match your decor. If she had naturally red hair, and it clashed with the dresses would you make her dye it brown?

Me, a few months ago.. Blue is great. Just keep quiet about it, slap on your white dress and forget that she looks awesome.

Say nothing at all about her hair. Not your hair, not your concern. She is not a decoration for you to change how you please. The end.