How to respond to facebook comment

Hi Meline. For this reason, unfortunately it's always best to not post anything wedding-related on Facebook or any social media. In this case, honestly I would say just don't respond. Best of luck!

I don't respond to stupid facebook comments like that. If she specifically messages/calls you about it, I would have your best friend tell her. My sister did this to me with her MIL. I told my sister she needs to say she's not invited because she wants her to babysit haha

I wouldn't even respond honestly. Just maybe "Like" the comment to acknowledge her.

And the best thing you can do is keep wedding planning off of FB.

What @OrigionalRandi said.

I agree, somewhat. I think you should be able to post small things like that on FB without having people automatically assume they're invited. I just wouldn't respond to a comment like that. Why would you friend's MIL expect invite? That's just weird to me.

I am also on Team No-Comment. I wouldn't respond unless she directly asks you (off of facebook).

And this is the reason I've kept all things wedding completely off my page.

Good luck with this one! I would recommend coming here and posting anything you want to say rather than sharing it on social media in the future

Oooof. Well, my MOH wouldn't be telling me who is on the guest list. That seems pretty bold. But, In the future keep these things off of Facebook. It isn't worth the headache. I would just let it go for now. Address it when the time comes. You have a while yet. Good luck!

I know a lot of people like posting on FB about their wedding. If you do this you can group your friends together and filter your status so only those who are in the "wedding group" can see it.

I do know her rather well but we're keeping it to family and close friends. Plus I need her to babysit!

But as far as those of you saying not to post anything on social media, I don't plan on posting much but I think I should at least be able to post that we finally have a wedding date after being engaged for 4 months!

I definitely wouldn't respond to her on Facebook. If anything, maybe have your friend speak to her since it's her mother.

I agree with Mr.s Nickerson. Don't respond to her would be your best option.

I don't think you posted anything ridiculous. Hopefully, she's just excited for you and understands she's not actually going to get invited. I agree though, just don't respond to the comment.

I post on FB about our wedding. If someone asks I simply tell them "I'm sorry, we had to keep our guest list small" aka your not invited.

Hi date twin! I posted the same thing when we set the date and fortunately no one said anything like that. I do keep the posts about the wedding to a minimum but I am excited and should be able to post without everyone assuming they are invited or should be invited! It's my page and I shouldn't have to hide that I am getting married. Like others have said just don't respond to the comment.

I don't really post on social media about my wedding but I don't think your post is unreasonable at all. Some of my fb friends post so much detail I feel like I know everything about their weddings except for the dress lol. This will come up online and in person it seems like. People will ask about invites so prepare an answer to use from now on as suggested above.

I definately wouldn't tell her that she's not invited because she has to babysit. That is kind of rude. "I don't want you to come to my wedding, but can you do me a solid and watch kids so they don't ruin my super special day? KTHANKSBYE!" Just ignore the comment and like PP Said keep wedding related stuff off FB.

I don't post anything wedding related on FB.

I think that was a perfectly reasonable thing to post if you feel like it. I wouldn't respond though and would let your friend express to her that she needs her to babysit.

I'm all for inviting who you want...but not inviting someone so that they can babysit? Weird.