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Kelly
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How to make it clear there's NO plus one?

Kelly, on August 7, 2013 at 11:32 AM

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I've heard a lot of stories on here about people inviting themselves, or assuming they get a plus one. How can I make it perfectly clear that no, you don't get a plus one. FH and I decided that unless the couple's married/engaged, living together, or have been together 6 months or longer, they don't...

I've heard a lot of stories on here about people inviting themselves, or assuming they get a plus one. How can I make it perfectly clear that no, you don't get a plus one.

FH and I decided that unless the couple's married/engaged, living together, or have been together 6 months or longer, they don't get a plus one. We're young, so most of our friends are single, and not allowing plus one's cuts our guest list down by almost 25%. But I also don't want to deal with the awkwardness of people assuming they get one.

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*ADDED BY WW*

To make this clear, address your invitations to EXACTLY who is invited (Mr. John Doe vs. The Doe Family). You can also add a line to your RSVP cards that indicates how many seats you have reserved in their honor. If RSVPs come in with additional guests, call the guest and let them know directly!

Wedding Guest List Etiquette

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  • Mandee
    Devoted September 2020
    Mandee ·
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    Unless he's married/engaged/living with that person (or he's in the bridal party), kindly reach back out to him and tell him that due to venue constraints, plus ones will not be able to be accepted.



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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
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    On our wedding invitations and wedding website, we are saying "We respectfully request that your plus one be your engaged or married partner." Everyone knows we are having a more intimate wedding so this won't be an issue for us really.

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  • Lasha
    Dedicated May 2021
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    We are getting married out of the country and our package includes 40 ppl. We have a lot of plus ones so we’re like okay we get it you want to travel with your spouse but they are not included in the marriage package.
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  • Alyssa
    Dedicated August 2021
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    I would put either : ___ seat has been reserved for our wedding or their name and guest of choice or just their name
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