To clarify, I’ve cut everything that I can possibly cut without it making the day unenjoyable for myself, FH and/or our guests. We both agreed that the #1 thing we wanted to prioritize was making sure that we weren’t stingy about our guest list, since we feel like having the people we love to us to surround us on our day is the most important part. And of course we want to feed them well, but we have cut every “extra” and are getting most other things very inexpensively.
I feel like every time I look at or think about our budget I feel sick thinking about how much money is being dropped on one day. Even though I KNOW this is what we both want, I just can’t wrap my head around dropping this much money without feeling guilty to myself! I guess, I don’t need help finding ways to reduce expenses (because I don’t think there is anything to cut, or that I’d want to cut) but I just need some help justifying to myself that it’s worth it to spend so much money on one day.
Give me your experiences, tell me why your wedding day was so worth the expense, let me know I’m not alone in wanting this wedding but also feeling sick about how much it’s costing!