We need to have a talk with FH's parents today about their number of guests. The reception venue has a limit of 152 (counting FH and I) and currently we have around 180 on the list. FH and I would prefer the actual guests number around 100. We are getting married on a Sunday night and it's OOT for many people, plus we never sent STDs so I'm hoping that will cut down on guests a little bit. also FH and I are not inviting any of our coworkers, etc. only close friends and no distant family beyond first cousins/aunts/uncles. my parents have added maybe 10 people who are all close family friends.. FH's parents gave us a list of about 38 people, including everyone in his dad's office, after we told them they could invite around 15-20 total..FMIL insists some of them are just courtesy invites and there's no way they'll show but I DO NOT want to deal with disinviting people. HELP. how many can we invite?