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Lindsay
Just Said Yes October 2021

How many of you are eloping?

Lindsay, on September 6, 2020 at 10:56 AM Posted in Planning 3 8
My fiancé and I decided to elope instead of doing a ceremony here with friends. We’ve both been married before, and neither of us wants the hassle of planning a big thing, but we also want something a little more involved than a courthouse ceremony. So I’m curious, how many of you are opting to elope? And what are your reasons?

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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
    Yasmine ·
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    We originally planned to elope and have a big wedding a few months later but about 2 weeks ago we decided to do a minimony on our original date and a big wedding in March. Will you invite anyone at all to the elopement?
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  • Jai
    VIP May 2020
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    We had a small wedding of 7 people due to covid. Was originally gonna be 92 before covid. Smaller was less stressful and cost effective. I would recommend to anyone to go smaller.
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  • Lindsay
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Lindsay ·
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    I’m not sure. We’re still discussing having a maid of honor and a best man, but I think we may just end up doing it the two of us, then throw a big party when we get home as our reception.
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  • Mrs. Spring
    Master April 2021
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    My FH and I are eloping.
    Reasons:
    -save a significant amount of money-none of pur families showed an interest in the wedding nor offered to help plan, organize, etc.- I don't get along with his brother qnd my FH isn't the biggest fan of my sister, etc.- I'm very afraid of being the center of attention.-I didn't want to hear any negative comments about our wedding details and my attire, etc. I plan on not wearing a wedding gown.
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  • Lindsay
    Just Said Yes October 2021
    Lindsay ·
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    A lot of our reasons are similar! Some of it family, most of it about saving a ton of money, my considering not wearing a traditional gown. Also wanting to not have all the focus on us. Thanks for sharing!
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  • Yasmine
    Master October 2020
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    That’s perfectly fine as well! Goodluck with whatever you decide
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  • Shamaree
    Dedicated February 2020
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    This is essentially what we did. We eloped, just us. And we plan to have a big reception later. I feel wedding ceremonies are super intimate and I didn’t want anyone spectating. We had a photographer and videographer so people were still there but it was perfect! I do look forward to the party though so we can celebrate with our loved ones.
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  • Just Said Yes March 2021
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    Well me and my husband now eloped because of all the changes due to Covid. We are now planning a small wedding of 15 of family and friends. Which we will all be staying in a villa together. So this is our safe pod and everyone invited has agreed to have none contact with others 30 days prior to the event,
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