So our wedding we are doing immediate family for ceremony and dinner and having friends come after dinner venue is too small he has a large family (113) to be exact and we can't cram that many tables and chairs in there anyways we are doing cupcakes instead of cake do you usually get 1 per person or more or less i don't want to run out or have too many left over. And we are also going to be putting out hors d'oeuvre's for later guests and whoever gets hungry