How long did you plan for?

If it financially won’t work I think it is totally fine to put it off! That way you can afford the wedding you want! Don’t feel rushed!

Makes sense to put it off until you can afford it! However I’d also value building a savings account over throwing a fancy wedding. Not sure how much you’re planning to spend on it but maybe consider doing something smaller so you won’t be as financially strained.

I got pregnant about two weeks after we got engaged. So we are getting married early next year. It gave us the perfect amount of time to save and pay for almost everything ourselves. I’d wait until next year when you can afford it. You can both use your taxes to secure a date for next year while it’s cheaper. And get married in a off month nov-March and on a Sunday or Friday or even a weekday and you’ll save tons of money. Don’t worry about everyone else. They’ll be just fine. You don’t want to have to struggle and go into debt. Take your time and do what’s best for you. You can start planning and venue searching now so you can get an estimate of what you’ll be paying. Good luck.

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It definitely won't be a fancy wedding lol. We are looking at decently cheap venues. Thanks for you comment, I just feel weird changing the year several times now.

It makes sense to put it off and it’s responsible of you to try to save up for it instead of gaining debt over it

View Quoted Comment Makes sense! Maybe just tell people you don’t know yet when they ask when the wedding is?