I'll be 34 when we get married so if all goes as planned...about 6 months after we get married so we can try and have 2 before I'm 40. But it doesn't always work out as planned so we will see what happens!!
6 months and only because we are in an area with Zika right now for honeymoon. I'm 38 so we kind of have to do this now or never. If I didn't have a biological clock I'd wait another 10 years. I love my life!! I think the most important thing is to experience life as much as you can before you bring children into it. Travel, establish your career, hang out with friends and your FH. It will all be different after kids come. I can't even tell you when the last time I had a full uninterrupted conversation with my friends with kids was. Never happens. And yes you can travel with kids but it most likely will be at set times when they aren't in school. The days of being spontaneous will be gone.
Absolute hard minimum of 3 years for health reasons (I have a metal bar in my chest that'll be taken out in 2 and a half years) but I'm pretty sure it'll take 5 years for us to get to the financial and career points we want to be at before having kids.
We want to wait a couple of years. We'll probably be in our late 30's before we try to conceive. I'm 36 and fh is 37. We don't want to rush and have kids just because we're a little older. We both wanted to enjoy each other before kids come into the picture.
Im hoping for a honeymoon baby. We will both be turning 31 around our wedding. We plan on trying to have a child right away. We will have been together for 9 years by then so to us its not rushing.
Whenever feels right for us!! I imagine it'll be within the first year or 2 of being married. We will be 23 and 24 when we get married so we aren't in the biggest rush. I just wanna make sure we have money saved up first. We also need to buy our first home and I need to figure out some career stuff!
We're an older couple. I'm 35 and FH is 37, so planning for 3-6 months after the wedding. I would like to wait atleast a year but seeing how it's been difficult for my sister this past year, I figured I would start on the earlier side since there's no telling how quickly (or slowly) it could happen.
FH and I have decided to travel and hang out just us for a while after the wedding. We decided we both know we will know when it's the "right time" to have kids. So We're not putting a time frame on things.
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I'm trying not to put a timeline on it. We're both still meh on the idea of kids at this point. The only thing we have decided is that if we have any, it has to be before FH is 40, which gives us 5 years.