We both want to enjoy a few years of just us and being able to go on little trips and things without worrying about a baby. We also want to pay off all of FH's credit card debt. Plus we're financially stable enough for 2 people right now, but definitely cannot afford a child.
We're only 22 and 23 so we're not in any rush.
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August 2017
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My fiancé would try now if it were up to him. I'd prefer three to four years. Realistically I think we'll I promise on 1.5 to 2. I would wait even longer if I could but I'm 29 now so i know I can't wait forever either
I was married before and have 2 from that marriage, he was married before and have 2 from that marriage. And we have a set of twins together. So that's 6 kids. Never ever again. No more kids ever!! Lol I love my kids but our kids are all the same ages. So two 7 year olds, two 6 year olds, and two 2 year olds. So I'm done.
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June 2017
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Haha. We waited -6 months, baby Richmond will be here 4 months into our marriage. The plan was to wait a year but we are just as happy with this outcome
We are planning on waiting about 2 years before TTC, then whatever happens happens! I have PCOS so we will most likely have to go through fertility treatments, if that is the case we will wait 5 to save up for it! If the second case ends up happening FH says we can get a new fur baby while we wait
At least 5 years, we have some goals in mind that we'd like to reach first. I'm actually okay with not having kids till I'm in my 30's and we want to adopt as well. I definitely don't feel pressured to be a mom by such and such age.
I'll be 27 and he'll be 30 when we get married. I'm ready but he wants to travel and enjoy our married time without kids. I'm totally on board and am already daydreaming about Europe 2019. I also want to be a sahm so we want to make sure we're ready for that to happen when the time comes. I think a couple of years when I'm 29 and he's 32. We talk about kids often and are really looking forward to it.
I'll turn 29 the month before we get married, FH will be 28 when we get married, but we want to wait a year or 2. Buy house and hopefully move up to the next step in our jobs.
Maybe forever. Neither of us are set on having kids. I'm 32, he's 38, so we don't want to wait too long if we decide to go that route. We have had this talk, and both of us agree we will be happy either way. I think if we decide to try, we will give it a set amount of time for it to happen, but won't go to any extra effort (IVF, ect)
I wanted to be married a few months at least before we started TTC, but I have baby fever so bad. I will probably start at the honeymoon honestly. He is ready for kids so we will see what happens!
I'll be 27 and FH will be 30 when our wedding rolls around, so we're thinking we'll wait 2-3 years. We just want to get more established in our careers and save up enough money to get a bigger house than we have now.