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MJ
VIP April 2017

How long after marriage do you continue to wear your engagement ring?

MJ, on October 20, 2016 at 10:01 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 131

This just came to mind but how long are you expected to wear engagement ring after you get married. I remember my former boss had been married for like 15 years and still wore her engagement ring along with band. My other coworkers just wear their band.

This just came to mind but how long are you expected to wear engagement ring after you get married. I remember my former boss had been married for like 15 years and still wore her engagement ring along with band.

My other coworkers just wear their band.

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  • Punkin Beer
    Master October 2017
    Punkin Beer ·
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    Funny story...my FH thought that the engagement ring was only to be worn *during* the engagement. Once you get married, you switch to the band only.

    Apparently he never realized his own mother still wore her's. I think he was a little relieved....all that money for something you only wear for a year or 2?!?!

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  • Mrswelch
    Master December 2017
    Mrswelch ·
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    I will be wearing mine together. It really depends on the person though. Some people only wear the band and then wear their engagement ring on their right hand sometimes, some don't wear any band or engagement ring at all. It's really a personal preference.

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  • Katherine
    VIP June 2017
    Katherine ·
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    I'm wearing mine forever! I'm planning to get a band that can be worn alone and not soldering them together so I could just wear the band if I wanted to.

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  • Jennifer
    Expert March 2017
    Jennifer ·
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    I plan to wear both, but since I work in a hospital and do patient care all day as a therapist, I'll wear my engagement ring on a necklace and the band on my finger while I'm working.

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  • Holly
    Super February 2017
    Holly ·
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    I don't plan on having a wedding band, I just want the engagement one. So I'll be wearing mine forever!

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  • Kaylie
    Master May 2016
    Kaylie ·
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    I don't plan to ever stop wearing my engagement ring. It was my grandmother's so it's very special to me. And I have two curved bands that go around it and definitely are not meant to be worn alone. I may invest in a cheap band to wear if there's ever a time I don't want to be wearing the whole setup.

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  • LC
    Expert June 2017
    LC ·
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    @Punkin My FH thought the same thing. He was very confused about why you would spend so much money on an engagement ring and then not wear it after the wedding. His mom only wears a band, I'm not sure if she ever had an e-ring, so I think that's where his thought came from. I assured him that I will be wearing my engagement ring with my wedding ring for the rest of my life.

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  • Holly
    Master February 2017
    Holly ·
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    Holly- same. I looked at bands but nothing seemed to compliment it. So I think I'm just keeping this as my wedding ring.

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  • MAMW
    VIP August 2013
    MAMW ·
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    I wear them in all different combinations depending on what I'm doing. If we're going out I definitely wear them as a set, and I usually wear them to work as a set. But, I'm a high school science teacher so if I'm doing a lab that day where I'll be in gloves most of the day, I'll either wear just my band or leave all of my rings at home instead of taking them on and off all day.

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  • Crescent1874
    VIP March 2016
    Crescent1874 ·
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    My cousin doesn't wear hers because she doesn't prefer to wear jewelry. She just wears her band. It's totally personal preference or if you can't (like if you're in the medical field or something).

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  • Soon2BRuffo
    Super October 2017
    Soon2BRuffo ·
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    My plan is to wear them together always!

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  • A
    Dedicated May 2017
    Andrea ·
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    Forever. Also I think my FH would be a little upset if he knew I was going to put it up after he spent a lot of money on it :0

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  • Erica
    Super May 2017
    Erica ·
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    I plan on wearing both, with a plain silver band when I'm doing something more hands on

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  • Private_User832
    Master August 2017
    Private_User832 ·
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    I plan on wearing both always

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  • SJ
    VIP October 2017
    SJ ·
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    Most people wear it forever unless it doesn't fit and they haven't changed the size (ex. a lot of women's fingers change size from kids so they remove their rings to have it sized later on and just don't get around to actually doing it)

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  • MrsMelissaP
    VIP January 2017
    MrsMelissaP ·
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    Forever??

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  • mimitrue
    Master January 2016
    mimitrue ·
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    Forever. Soldered together with my wedding ring.

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  • xray12280
    Master June 2017
    xray12280 ·
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    I plan to continue to wear mine. Many of my coworkers only wear the band or have a qualo (sp?) ring they wear at work. I work in healthcare so constantly putting gloves off/on and washing hands. I have a low profile ring so it doesn't break thru or get cought on gloves like some of my coworkers do.

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  • Ashlee
    Devoted April 2017
    Ashlee ·
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    I plan to wear mine for the rest of forever but also because my wedding band and ring will be soldered together. My FMIL usually just wears her band and then at events will wear both. It's all personal preference!

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  • Kelsey
    VIP December 2016
    Kelsey ·
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    I plan to wear my engagement ring every day with my band

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