How do you find your own forum posts?!

If your post is the one I think you're talking about ("ugly" bridesmaid), I don't think you actually want to find it.

IDK if you can find them on mobile. If you are on desktop version, you should be able to go to your profile n it'll list your threads/posts.

If I were you I would try to disassociate myself from that thread, not revive it.

I think that thread is read-only now?!?

Here is the thread if anyone really wants to revisit it: https://www.weddingwire.com/wedding-forums/awkward-bridesmaid-decisions/f193e59ea9fb71ba.html?page=1

You should probably let that one stay lost.

The general consensus was that you should tell your FH how you feel and all your problems should resolve themselves.

Oh yes, please tell him how you feel about his sister.