How do uninvite someone to my wedding.

Once you extend the invitation, it cannot be rescinded.

Agreed with Kit and Kaboodle. On the bright side, There a chance she doesn't want to attend.

That's what I figured. I would feel alot better knowing that she won't be there instead of worrying if I would have to ask her to leave if she shows up.

There is no way your old coworker is going to show up to your wedding after all that. Don't worry about it.

Sounds like she won't come anyway..

Has she RSVP'd yet to the wedding? She may not want to go.

And no you don't ask someone to leave once they are at your wedding.

Completely agree with Emily. Asking her to leave once she arrives would be remarkably rude.

Don't worry she won't come.

It's a done deal, my friend. If you have an issue with her, seat her and her plus one in the back of the room. That's the best you can do. Uninviting is not an option.

I agree--she's not going to show up. If you feel she might, just leak a little info to a mutual friend that you know she betrayed your trust by carrying stories about you to your old boss. That will do it!

I doubt she'll come

I don't think she'll come so I wouldn't worry too much about un-inviting her.