I am getting ready to send invitations here shortly so I need some blunt advice. Our nieces and nephews will be attending as well as two teenagers from out of state but other than that I don't want anyone else bringing their kids. I know I will get some backlash from my cousins on this and I don't care, I am mostly concerned with not offending His side of the family. How do I explain that SOME kids will be there but yours aren't invited?