How do I get over guests I don’t like being there ?

I don't know a good chunk of people that my FH/FMIL are inviting. That doesn't mean I'm upset or dreading it. Ultimately the day is about you and your FH and anyone who attends is there to celebrate that. I would hope that on my wedding day I'd be so happy and caught up in that joyousness that I wouldn't be bothered by people I don't know being there. I have friends who I don't love their SO but I wouldn't ever let their presence at my wedding bring me down. I think you're overthinking it and giving too much power to these people if it's affecting you this much. Focus on the positives and the fact that you'll get to have the people you love so much there.

View Quoted Comment It’s just a really small wedding, nothing huge .. I don’t doubt I’ll be overjoyed but pains me that I have to spend my hard earned $$ on significant others I don’t care for but thanks I’ll focus on the positive

View Quoted Comment People make it way more than it should be, it's your wedding do what you want! My husband and I made an agreement that if we didn't like someone they wouldn't be invited it doesn't matter who it is!

I have one or two not particularly excited to have there, but one is my FH’s niece’s boyfriend. She lives with him and he’s coming! I love her and that’s that. The second is a co-worker, but I’m inviting our mutual friends and wouldn’t think of not inviting her. Not worth hurting her feelings. Besides if two people out of 80+ people are not exactly faves, I will suck it up. The main focus is marrying my husband who I love and spending the rest of my days with. He’s what matters that day. The party is just window dressing at that point. I can’t wait to celebrate our union with family and friends!

In this case, you just get over it.