How do I get over guests I don’t like being there ?

View Quoted Comment So you’re saying I don’t have to invite people’s husbands and wives ? I can send out an invite to just the people I know even if they are married? I mean seriously how is this so hard to understand

View Quoted Comment This is the case, a lot of my guests are married / in long term relationships and I don’t care for their significant others

View Quoted Comment Because they are married to my friends which I love

View Quoted Comment They are married to my friends so they have to be there .. I once posted on another forum asking if it’s rude to only invite your friends / family and not their significant others and I got chewed out .. now I’m sad my wedding is 50% people I don’t know / or don’t like & people are shocked I invited ppl I don’t like lol I’m so confused

View Quoted Comment What is they are married to someone you love and are really close to?

View Quoted Comment Because they are married to my friends and/or family

View Quoted Comment So I’m allowed to not invite husband / wives of friends and family ?

View Quoted Comment They are SO of my guests .. I love all my family and friends that we invited .. we’re having a small wedding but unfortunately 50% of our guests are wives/husbands that either I barely know or don’t like

View Quoted Comment It’s husband / wives of my guests I wish I could only invite my friends and family and not who they chose to marry

View Quoted Comment Lmao! Unfortunately I’m having a really small wedding so I’m upset about 50% of the guest list being husband and wives of ppl I barely know

View Quoted Comment I meant to say husband and wives I barely know of people I love

View Quoted Comment They are married to my friends and family who I love so I can’t not invite them

View Quoted Comment How? Well because you created an open ended post with a single question and no specific details. So I answered it. And even with the extra details listed here, thankfully, I still can’t relate. We just don’t have such types of negative relationships with our invited guests. It’s unfortunate that you’re dealing with that. However, I’m sure you’ll be too overjoyed on your wedding day for it to even be a concern.

View Quoted Comment Simply not invited 🤷🏾‍♀️ My husband and I actually went through this! If our loved one chooses not to come because their spouse/partner isn't invited we completely understand. But we weren't letting anyone ruin our day or give off negative vibes!!

View Quoted Comment I would not invite either if one half of the couple I couldn’t stand.

View Quoted Comment Wow I wish! I posted once asking if it was ok to invite people without their significant others if we didn’t know them or didn’t particularly like them and I got chewed up about how rude it was. Now that I’m not happy with the guest list people are confused why I invited their spouses to begin with lol so confusing

View Quoted Comment I wish it were that easy. I’m very close to this person and don’t feel like it’s right to let them know I don’t like their spouse in my life wedding invite

View Quoted Comment I don’t think anyone is confused on why you’re inviting spouses. Your post was incredibly vague on who these people are to you so how were we supposed to guess that it’s your friends’ spouses you were posting about? Significant others should definitely be invited.

View Quoted Comment Yeah it was vague I didn’t want to give too much details but didn’t think everyone knew every single person they invited to their wedding

View Quoted Comment Well you didn’t give all the facts, you didn’t state who it was you didn’t want to invite. Married couples are a unite and get invited together (It’s your wedding and you could certainly invite one without the other but it’s in very poor taste and you could expect a lot of declines.)