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Emily
Dedicated October 2020

How did you find your officiant?

Emily, on February 5, 2020 at 10:06 AM Posted in Wedding Ceremony 0 11

I am having the hardest time even knowing where to look to find an officiant to marry us when my wedding comes! My FH and I have decided on a secular ceremony so a church officiant doesn't work for us. We are getting married in a smaller town so there are not that many people show up on a google search and even less when I start looking for someone that can do a non religious ceremony. I don't know anyone that is ordained and no one that would be willing to get ordained to marry us. Where and how did you find your officiant?

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Latest activity by Alycia, on February 5, 2020 at 12:50 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I would check Thumbtack
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  • N
    VIP September 2020
    Neeva ·
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    I used this app, weddingwire

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  • Mrs. S
    Master November 2019
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    There’s lots of officiants on wedding wire who will do your ceremony however you want it, I found mine on here
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  • R
    Super September 2018
    Rachel ·
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    Ask the the other vendors you’ve hired. We asked our invitation designer, photographer, florist and videographer for recommendations. And any officiant who was not available we asked them for recommendations as well. Hang in there, you’ll find the right person soon enough!
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  • Theadra
    Devoted June 2021
    Theadra ·
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    We got married at the courthouse and fell in love with her personality and overall presence. Maybe getting involved in the community could help? Or on here
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
    Gen ·
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    I know you said that you don’t know anyone willing to get ordained to marry you, but not sure if you know getting ordained online literally takes less than 5 mins lol. Not sure if that’s legal in your state or if you’d want to do it, but I just wanted to make sure you knew how easy/low effort it was!
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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
    Catherine ·
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    We had a friend that did our ceremony. he is only ordained in NY so we did a small "legal" ceremony here then had our big ceremony out of state.

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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
    Sherry ·
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    We found ours through the Wedding Wire vendors. We love them so much and still hang out with them.

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  • N
    Master January 2015
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    I found ours by googling "wedding officiant". He has over 200 five star reviews on Google. He's now on WeddingWire too, but wasn't when we originally found him.

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  • Emily
    Dedicated October 2020
    Emily ·
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    Thanks all for the suggestions. WeddingWire doesn't have anyone listed in my area... I started there. But like I said, it's such an out of the way location everyone it lists is 80+ miles from us. I checked google too but it's also filled with 2star officiants that have gotten really nasty in the comments about their reviews. I just don't get a good feeling from someone like that.

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  • Alycia
    Expert September 2021
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    We used wedding wire. We are an interfaith couple but we found some great local officants on this site.
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