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dancingbride89
Just Said Yes June 2017

How can I tell my best friend(who might be a bridesmaid) not to bring her rude boyfriend?

dancingbride89, on July 12, 2015 at 11:30 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 43

So, I have a huge dilemma. I really want my best friend to be in/attend my wedding, but her boyfriend is really a horrible person. He's made some pretty offensive comments to my fiance and me in the past. I'm not even comfortable being in the same room as him, let alone having him at such an...

So, I have a huge dilemma. I really want my best friend to be in/attend my wedding, but her boyfriend is really a horrible person. He's made some pretty offensive comments to my fiance and me in the past. I'm not even comfortable being in the same room as him, let alone having him at such an important event. She knows that I don't really like him, but how do I tell my friend that her boyfriend isn't welcome?

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  • Jarika & Andrew
    Super July 2016
    Jarika & Andrew ·
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    You don't say anything. Just suck it up and let her bring him.

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  • Sassy Cincy Bride
    VIP August 2015
    Sassy Cincy Bride ·
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    You can't say that and expect it to go well. Perhaps invite him and seat him at the back of the room. I love the slush table. It is for those who did not rsvp or those or are poorly behaved.

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  • K
    Just Said Yes August 2017
    Karen ·
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    I am in bit of a similar situation...my MOH's boyfriend is horrendous. Last time my fiance and I were at an event with him there was a huge blowout. It ended with him of course threatening to beat the crap out of my fiance and I went off on him as well. Months later there is still that elephant in the room that my MOH and I dont talk about. I know its rude not to invite him, but my fiance and I both would feel extremely uncomfortable being around him. His behavior is so unpredictable...we refuse to have to feel that way on our wedding day. 7 months away and I need to talk to my MOH asap about how we do not want him there. I am having real anxiety about it...

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