My FH and I are at odds about this issue. I brought it up recently (3 months until our wedding btw) because time is ticking and I'd like to get everything squared away. FH was fuming that I would even consider staying at a hotel our wedding night. I thought it was the norm! He insists that we should stay at our apartment, since we don't live together and it will be our first night there. I told him money is no issue, my Mom thinks it's ridiculous and she'll pay for the hotel. What do you guys think?