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Help!!! *serious answers only please*

Shametra, on September 20, 2019 at 2:11 PM

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I REALLY NEED HELP!!! I have a female friend that identifies as male!!! And I want her to be a part of my wedding but I have no idea where to put her.. I haven't formally asked her yet because I have no idea what to do.. I dont want to make her a groomsman.. I was thinking maybe a bridesmaids but...
I REALLY NEED HELP!!! I have a female friend that identifies as male!!! And I want her to be a part of my wedding but I have no idea where to put her.. I haven't formally asked her yet because I have no idea what to do.. I dont want to make her a groomsman.. I was thinking maybe a bridesmaids but with a suit on... idk help with ideas please!!

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I would just ask them to be apart of your wedding party and leave it open ended. Then come up with a few cohesive options (dress, jumpsuit, pants suit, etc.) and ask them what they would prefer to wear.

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  • Miranda
    Dedicated September 2020
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    My friend did a man of honor this week. And it worked out great it didn't seem weird and he looked so nice in his suit on our side with the other bridesmaids

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