I am confused and conflicted on the place settings for my wedding. We decided to go with a BBQ caterer since the wedding is labor day weekend, but our theme is Alice in Wonderland. I've always envisioned using mixed china plates but it seems a little weird with BBQ. I have some people telling me to use heavy duty plastic plates, and others suggesting I use plain porcelain plates. I need advice, suggestions, help, everything and anything you can think of to help me make a decision! TIA