Hi guys so I'm trying to save money with my wedding. I'm tyring to cut costs with the alcohol, and the decor. I really just want candles of different sizes, and dark plum calla lilies as my flowers. I want the ceramony to be simple, and the reception to have the flowers. I'm tyring to make it simple yet glam. Should I try to buy everything myself, and have family decorate, or should I hire someone.