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Liz
Expert August 2011

He doesn't want to marry me anymore!

Liz, on February 24, 2010 at 2:17 AM

Posted in Planning 25

I'm very upset, he told me he is not sure if he wants to marry me! I dont know what to do

I'm very upset, he told me he is not sure if he wants to marry me! I dont know what to do Smiley sad

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  • Antoinette
    Devoted August 2024
    Antoinette ·
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    Hi Navy_Baby don't worry just take one day at a time. I went through the same thing. Mike was ok until the planning started i think it was just too much for him. It really did not have a clue about weddings at all and that's where we bumbed heads at. After months of stressing i decided to do as he asked which was leave him out of the planning. At first it was real hard for me cause i was so excited about everything and i wanted him to feel the same way also. We did decide to go to Marriage Classes which we both loved!! It was the best thing we did for us as a couple. Our counselor told us that every man wanted to be involved and that i needed to understand that about Mike. And guess what i did!!! We were married on 2/11/2010 and lookig forward to our reception on 4/17/2010. I hope and pray everything works out for you.

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  • Officially His Mrs P.
    Master October 2010
    Officially His Mrs P. ·
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    I'm so sorry to hear that....I think we'll all done that. We get so excited about the details and want to share & decide on things with our FH....frankly they could care less. I agree w/PP we've also set up a day & that day only where we talk about the wedding.

    Just sit down with Honey & talk about everything...hopefully he realizes that its all the wedding talk thats driving him crazy & that he does want to marry you.

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  • T
    Devoted August 2012
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    Im so sorry to hear that. With guys it can be overwhelming. I think you and your FH should just sit down and talk things out. I hope everything goes well.

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  • N
    Just Said Yes May 2013
    Nora ·
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    Omg my guy just said the same thing. and is coming up with bs about me not having a job and not giving him time for him self......

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  • A
    Just Said Yes July 2018
    Anna ·
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    I feel you girl, my fiance just broke up with me even blocked me in whatsapp and messenger.
    It's shattering and heartbreaking
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