Jessica
Dedicated August 2021

Have you had a nightmare about wedding mishaps??

Jessica, on August 2, 2021 at 12:47 PM Posted in Community Conversations 0 15
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We are 24 days away from our wedding. We are SUPER excited. I get a bit anxious from time to time but the other night, I had my first ever wedding NIGHTMARE.

It was the night of our wedding, we were at Disneyland of all places (could never afford that in real life HAH), our officiant (who is my cousin) did not show up, so my Mom had to officiate our wedding & she was wearing a white t-shirt with emojis all over it. I forgot my book with my vows & my shoes. It started to rain & my MOH dropped my train while walking & it landed in a dirty puddle right before I was supposed to walk down the aisle. After all this, because of all these mishaps, the reception started so late, my FH didn't even want to go!

I woke up & stayed awake. I popped myself up in bed and told Siri to make a new note to remember: vows, shoes, check the weather, check in with mom about MOB dress, keep tabs on cousin etc. My FH woke up & was like "wedding planning at 3am?" LOL

Has anyone else had a nightmare like this as your day gets closer??

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Latest activity by Melle, on August 4, 2021 at 2:03 PM
  • Jessi
    Expert October 2022
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    I'm still well over a year out and I've had one dream so far: For some reason we set two dates, if the first one didn't work we'd just use the other. So the first date comes, no one has their outfits but FH, and he wants to get married. I'm like uh, I don't have a dress, but he doesn't care and says he's marrying me, not a dress. I show up at the church (we have never considered a church wedding so that's also weird lol) in sweatpants and an oversized shirt to call his bluff. He doesn't care... we get married with me in sweats in front of everyone from my high school who I don't talk to anymore 馃槀

    It's so crazy the stuff our brains will stick together when we're constantly thinking about one thing. I love that you had to make a note to check all of that lol.

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  • Eileen
    Savvy August 2021
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    I dreamt I was the only one at the venue. Place was locked. I was wandering around alone in my dress wondering where everyone was.
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  • Ashlee
    Expert September 2022
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    I haven't had any day of dreams, but i've definitely had dreams of planning, which have stressed me out more than the actual planning.

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  • Samantha
    Rockstar October 2022
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    I had a dream a guest got really drunk and started telling people I had a wild past and and was lucky my fh was marrying me LOL I don't even know who the guest was, but they're off the list!

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated August 2021
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    Right?! I have to do lists everywhere so I don't forget anything so I guess my brain is over thinking at night. LOL

    Your dream is HILARIOUS! I love that you tested him hahaha

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated August 2021
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    Awww, that WOULD be a nightmare!

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated August 2021
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    Haha totally get that! As if planning isn't stressful enough, we deserve a break while sleeping dang it!

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  • Jessica
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    Hilarious! Definitely off the list!

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  • Suzann
    Dedicated October 2021
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    When it comes to wedding planning, reality is scarier than any nightmare. Like so many others, we had a postponement, so for me that was a nightmare come true.

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  • Jessica
    Dedicated August 2021
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    UGH. I can only imagine! I am literally holding on for dear life to get through these next 24 days without the world shutting down again d/t COVID.

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  • Rosie
    Rockstar February 2022
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    Lol! These are hilarious!

    I've had 2 stress dreams. One was that my sister decide to get married later the same day, so at our wedding, she's in a tracksuit but with her hair and makeup done. The officiant starts with us in front of her, but we're so far away from our guests that they don't realise she's started. We ask her to maybe try and get their attention and she says it's their hard luck and continues on!

    Then, I had another dream where my mum and I went upstairs to do something with my dress or take a breather or something at our wedding reception, and the venue tell us they will call us down when it's time to, and to just relax. Anyway, no one comes back, and we realise it's been ages so we go downstairs - and the whole place is closed and dark, with the alarm on. My husband is gone, our guests are gone, no one is there.

    I think I see people outside (which is also pitch dark) so I think for a moment our guests must be waiting for us outside - but no. They are random strangers I've never seen before, sitting on picnic tables in the dark drinking wine and staring at me in my wedding dress, LOL.

    Brains are weird things and there is no accounting for what they'll put together!

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  • Autumn
    Just Said Yes October 2021
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    Yes! I had a nightmare that my groom and I left before the reception and missed everything lol

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  • Nichole
    Devoted September 2022
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    I havent had any major nightmares yet but we are still a year away however I might have some now because they just reinstated the mask wearing mandate at work......I have rosacea on a good portion of my face face and wearing a mask for 9 hours a day aggravates it to no end.......Im talking an itching burning rash across my face that makes me feel like scratching my face nonstop because its so aggravated. I dont wear make up on a daily basis because it makes that even worse. They had dropped the mask mandate memorial day weekend and it took 2 MONTHS for me to get my face back under control and no rash. Now I'm freaking out that this will last another year again and Ill have this horrible rash all over my face. If that wasnt bad enough I got regular nose bleeds during the year of wearing the mask and they come with no warning.
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  • Diana Scott
    Savvy July 2021
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    I had them a month before our wedding and then again the week of.
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
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    When i was wedding planning i definitely had those type of dreams.

    mine had a lot to do with things i was genuinely nervous about

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