Has anyone actually done those smartass RSVP's??

I'd make them in Microsoft Word. They're really funny, but most of our friends and family wouldn't find the humor in it sadly.....

I think they're so funny but I don't think I could actually do it myself haha.

You know your guests and you have the benefit of it being a small group.

I think with most weddings, people are lucky to get back a card that requires a check for attending, and a name written on the line.

We put "insert creative excuse" with a line next to the "no" line

You know your crowd, and if you think they'll like it I say go for it! I definitely should have done the first one: "Will attend and bring a date, even though the invite offered no indication that I could bring a date, but you're cool with it right?" yup. definitely could have used that

I've never seen anything like this used for an actual wedding. I have seen something similar for a party/casual event. But, if this is something that will fit into the style of your wedding, I say go for it.

We used:

__ Will be there with bells on

__ Will be there without bells

__ Will be there, undecided about the bells

__ Heard about the bells, will not be there

__ Will not attend, regardless of the bell situation

(Our theme was Christmas so the bells at least tied in a little). Many of the guests thought it was "cute", a couple of people actually wore "jingle" bells. One person thought a bell should be our favor.

That response card is awesome. I love the bells one too but FH didn't like it. We're doing something like this.