The "bridezilla" post got me thinking. Women (in general) work very hard to avoid negative labeling, like "bridezilla". I think the word is thrown around too much and incorrectly. Everyone planning a party (not just brides) is entitled to make some reasonable demands of vendors and guests (such as the date, location for vendors and asking guests to find their own child care if they are local or RSVP in a timely manner).
Normally, guests would oblige and understand. When it comes to weddings though, instead of understanding, I have found people trying their best to manipulate me for their benefit. One of those ways may be to call me a bridezilla (I haven't heard the phrase yet, but I assume it is just a matter of time). I say, let's turn the table and start calling the "guestzilla" and "vendorzilla". Anyone care to share some stories of what makes a guestzilla or vendorzilla?
