Guest wearing red

At least its not white. Also, I wouldn't worry about it no one is going to be looking at her.

This is one of those things that you might just have to "let go". There is bound to be so much beauty and love on your wedding day, try your best not to let the flashy girl in red take away from that. Focus on what you love, and try to ignore what you don't.

Yeah I mean I wouldn't say anything to her so I have to just let it go, but ugh!! haha

As crazy as I am I would def say let this one go.... let her appearence speak for itself... no matter how anyone looks that day no one will be more beautiful then you so dont sweat her red dress!

Let it gooooooooooo

Not worth the stress. Plus her idea of red might be a really faded red, or more maroon, or pink, don't worry about it!

Knowing me I would have said some smart ass shit like "bitch this ain't yo day" and let it go! lol she would have caught that dirt!

If it is provocative like you said I'm sure other guests will probably think the same thing when they see her. I just went to a wedding in CT and the groom was Jersey Shore-ish...most of the girls were wearing really tight, short (SUPER SHORT) dresses and they just looked silly. It definitely did not take away from the beautiful couple and their gorgeous day!

Let it go.

Nobody is going to pay any attention to her.

Cameras will be following you around, not her just because she has on a tight red dress.

Now, if she's single, she may get all the attention of any single guys, that attend but, who cares.

I know, you girls are right! I needed other's opinions. Thanks for making me feel better.

That would definitely irk me, but try to just forget about it. you won't care on the day, i promise.

i had a friend bring a date who apparently was wearing cargo shorts and sneakers. i said hello and i think even hugged the guy. i didn't even notice what he was wearing until someone told me after they'd left!

Agree with AndreaLily. I feel like at almost every wedding I've been to there's at least one girl in a dress that's way more appropriate for a club than a wedding. And I think most people just side-eye it and then move on (I usually just make snarky comments quietly at my table).

Maybe hers isn't too bad! But even if it is, on the day I'm sure you won't care.

I had a co-worker ask me if it was alright for her to wear white to my wedding as i was the nicest dress she had. I didn't have a probblem with it. Also one of my bridesmaids wanted to be almost as blinged out as me and I told her the maids couldn't outshine the bride. The guest wore the white with my blessing and the bridesmaids had a little bling but trust me, there was no way either outshined or drew attention from me, the bride. There is something about a bride that just glows (I would imagine the happiness and love she feels and is surrounded by) that I feel nothing can take away from. If she wants to dress in red or provacatively let her. It will still be your day and you will still outshine anyone in the room, trust me on this.

"She has always been an attention seeker and dresses a little more provocative."

why are you surprised? You KNOW this about her already.

Well, Paris, I figured maybe she wouldn't be this way at a wedding. Sorry for being surprised.

I agree with Paris, it's your day you are the bride you already WILL be the center of attention.

Red and tight doesn't necessarily mean skanky. I wouldn't worry about it.

I'm wearing a red cocktail dress to a girlfriend's wedding this winter. It's an appropriate length (to the knee) and well-fitted but not scandalous. She didn't mind. I did check with her though, just to make sure.

All eyes will be on you. Don't worry, they'll see this for what it is, a desperate ploy for attention. Focus on your husband. :o)

I went to a wedding where one guest was trying way too hard to be sexy. We all talked about her. And not in a good way. If your friend is too flashy, it'll cause the opposite effect that she probably wanted, so win for you!

Don't worry about it. Chances are the other guests will look at her and think that she's not dressed appropriately anyway (I know because the same thing happened at my friend's wedding!! And I kind of expect the girl to dress like that at mine.)

I definitely agree with your one point though--I wish people would stop telling me what they're wearing because I won't care the day of!