Guest List Issues follow up!

Her true colors are really coming out! You handled it calmly. She needs to understand this isn’t about her! It sounds like she’s not used to anyone telling her no.

View Quoted Comment It definitely made my blood boil and the worst part was that I was at work!! There is just unbelievably rude people out in this world!!

View Quoted Comment No she probably isn’t but I will NOT let her have her way at OUR wedding! She is out of her mind.

View Quoted Comment She is freaking nuts!! I'm sorry you have to deal with her

Omg. This girl is crazy. I’m so sorry you have to put up with that but I’m glad you’re standing up for yourself. If she does it again, I would call her with your fiancé on the line as well, and you both explain to her over the phone that her mother is not a part of your family, you’ve chosen your guests for a reason, and that if she comes she’ll be asked to leave because she was never invited. I’m so sorry.

Omg! I commented on your last post about her last message. Oh god that is soo rude for her to say well she dosent need a chair. So my mom can come. Ummm no. Wow girl you have alot more patience then me. I hope she takes your message seriously!! Please post a response if she writes back. Im dying to know what happens in this situation

Any updates?! I’m dying to know!,

View Quoted Comment Yes this girl is nuts. And no there is no updates unfortunately! I have no rsvp from them and idk what to do

View Quoted Comment Unfortunately no. I have no way of knowing if they will be attending or not. My fiancé has tried calling FBIL but has been sent to voicemail. Fortunately they will see each other tomorrow and hopefully get to the bottom of this!

You are seriously a SAINT!! I would have lost my composure on that one

View Quoted Comment Thank you! Trust me it was extremely hard and it continues to be. Unfortunately this had caused so much frustration, it’s annoying!

OMG!!!!!!!! THIS JUST IRRITATED ME!! the way she is TELLING you! so I can bring my mom... no you can not!!! has anything else happened? what was her response to this? you are better than me girl!

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Me too! lol

OMG! I don't understand how some people can be so inconsiderate. On top of the fact that she did not ASK she TOLD you her mom was coming. You were beyond nice with your response. The way I'm feeling about that, she would have been uninvited lol...people have to understand it is money coming out of your pockets not theirs. SMH

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How did it go when they saw eachother? Did they send the RSVP card or no? I would have texted her and been like "Sorry, we have not received your RSVP and after several attempts to reach out we regret to inform you we will no longer have a spot available for you." Hopefully though everything has worked out since this!

View Quoted Comment All he told my FH is that they will be there. No they have no sent the RSVP card and FBIL said that they lost it 🙄.

You handled it better than I would have. Good for you for standing your ground! Weddings bring out the crazy in folks.

Congrats on your big day passing! I'm sure it was beautiful! Excited to see your BAM! How did it go with crazy sister in law? Did she bring her mom?

View Quoted Comment It went fine other than my BIL being late to the ceremony 🙄. She did not bring her mom and I did not talk to her.

View Quoted Comment Congrats on your wedding!! Glad to hear this worked out (for the most part). I have been wondering!!