As our RSVP's roll in, let me just share with you the little story I woke up to today, and hopefully ya'll can give me some advice on how to handle it.
One of the GM's had a girlfriend at the time we were sending invites (literally 3 weeks ago) and so we invited the two of them, by name, on the same invitation (Mr. John smith & Ms. Jane Doe). Today FH gets a text from this GM stating:
"Don't know if you could tell but I'm no longer dating (Jane Doe) and now I'm dating (completely new girl we've never met). (Jane Doe) is still down to come to the wedding as friends, but also doesn't mind giving her invitation to (new girl). Does that work?"
If this were any guest, I would be fine with saying "no" but he is a groomsmen. I'm not sure what will feel more weird- having his ex accompany him to the wedding and rehearsal dinner, or pretty much un-inviting his former gf so his new girl can come... FH has yet to respond to the text, what would you do??
ETA: update in the comments!
