So our wedding cake is included with our venue which is a huge plus and gives us some wiggle room to buy a groom's cake. The wedding cake is going to be big enough to feed everyone there, so would a groom's cake be too much dessert then? Also is a Groom's cake suppose to be presented at the rehearsal dinner only or can you also have it at your reception? We are huge Steelers fan's and would love to have it decorated and shown for everyone to see, not just the people at the rehearsal. But if we do it for the reception then I would be left without a dessert for the rehearsal possibly.