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Dedicated June 2015

Groom in tux or kilt?

A., on December 16, 2014 at 9:04 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 26

My FH and I are both of Scottish decent. We are working on booking a bagpiper for the ceremony. Yesterday he asked if I would rather have him wear a kilt or tux. I and completely undecided. I like the classic look of the tux, but I also like the uniqueness of the kilt. What are your thoughts on this. I know it is up to FH and I, but I would love some advice. Thanks ladies!

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Latest activity by Missy, on December 18, 2014 at 11:31 AM
  • Staci
    Master September 2014
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    I love a kilt...as long as it wouldn't seem totally out of left field to your guests. If your Scottish heritage is a big part of your lives and your wedding I say go for it!

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  • Kemmie
    VIP May 2015
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    I think you should do what means the most to both of you. If your Scottish decent is a big part of your identity I think he should wear one. Also consider how your FH clans kilt works with you colour scheme.

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  • Kemmie
    VIP May 2015
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  • Jennifer
    Super August 2015
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    My brother didn't have a wedding party, but his best friend wore a kilt to his wedding. It looked awesome and unique. It was the talk of the guests and everyone loved it. I mean, what other occasions do you get to wear a kilt?


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  • Elyse
    Master September 2015
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    Hmm. I like uniqueness, but for the wedding I tend to go with more classic options. I don't know much about the tradition around it, but it reminds me of an outdoorsy daytime event. If you are going with a formal or semi-formal event, I would go with a tux. Is he having groomsmen? If so, what would they wear kilts or tuxes?

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  • Jennifer
    Super August 2015
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    @Elyse I disagree with you. I think kilts are very formal, actually.

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  • S
    Master June 2015
    Sara ·
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    Kilt! My friend got married in his kilt, and they incorporated a lot of Scottish/Celtic touches. I thought it was great. As the others mentioned, if your Scottish heritage is important to you both, do it. I don't think you have to worry about matching formality, you can dress up or down a kilt however is appropriate.

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  • SunshineJenn
    Master August 2014
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    Uh....how is this even a question? KILT.

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  • Elyse
    Master September 2015
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    Eh, I had to wear a kilt all through high school, so I guess it killed the formality for me.

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  • Sheryl
    Devoted August 2015
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    Definitely do the kilt!

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  • Z
    Master May 2012
    Zoe ·
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    Kilt! I would love to see that! Any chance all the GM could wear one, too?

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  • kahlcara
    Master August 2013
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    I vote kilt! The one issue may be price if he doesn't own one. A good kilt is like $200.

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  • NewestHess
    Super May 2015
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    Coming from a Highland Dancer- KILT! And to anyone who doesn't know- Kilts ARE formal men's attire.

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  • Now I'm Mrs. L
    VIP April 2015
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    Kilts all day !!! Formal and fun Smiley smile

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  • LightBlueGem
    Super March 2015
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    We are both largely Scottish and I'd love a kilt. I'd definitely make sure it's his family tartan, though, and not generic novelty.

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  • kLo
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    My family is Scottish (we immigrated to Canada when I was young), so my Dad wore a kilt. My nephew was our ring bearer and he also wore a kilt. My husband didn't, because it didn't mean anything to him. If it had meaning to your FH and he wants to wear one, go for it! My Dad wore the the formal version and my Uncle (our MC) went with a Ghillie shirt which was more casual.




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  • kLo
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    Sorry- this wouldn't post then went nutty! Here is the ghillie shirt photo. I think the formal kilt is really sharp!



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  • Jess
    Master May 2015
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    Since it is your heritage, I say go kilt! Kilts look sharp. Although, if it was just a random fashion choice, I wouldn't care for it as much.

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  • Reese
    Master July 2015
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    This might sound a little shallow, and I'm not at all saying you shouldn't do it, but take into consideration how it will work with your colors. Since this is something that is meaningful to both of you and not just a whim I assume he would wear his or your family's colors and not just any old kilt, right? I don't know what your colors or your families' patterns are so it could totally work. Just something to think about.

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  • DeniseD
    Master May 2015
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    I love the idea of the Kilt! I love keeping/adding cultural items to weddings.

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